IB/hfi1: Reduce hardware mutex timeout

The hardware mutex is now held only long enough to set
or clear flags.  Reduce the timeout to something more
reasonable.

Reviewed-by: Mitko Haralanov <mitko.haralanov@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Easwar Hariharan <easwar.hariharan@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dean Luick <dean.luick@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jubin John <jubin.john@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>