IB/hfi1: Handle host handshake timeout

Host handshake timeout can occur during the verify capability
state. This is a LNI related failure and should be
handled in the same way as other LNI failures.

Reviewed-by: Dean Luick <dean.luick@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Easwar Hariharan <easwar.hariharan@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jubin John <jubin.john@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>