dm mpath: add mutex to synchronize adding and flushing work

Add a mutex to allow possible creators of new work to synchronize with
flushing work queues.

Signed-off-by: Mike Anderson <andmike@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Acked-by: Kiyoshi Ueda <k-ueda@ct.jp.nec.com>
Signed-off-by: Alasdair G Kergon <agk@redhat.com>