iser-target: Fix possible deadlock in RDMA_CM connection error

Before we reach to connection established we may get an
error event. In this case the core won't teardown this
connection (never established it), so we take care of freeing
it ourselves.

Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagig@mellanox.com>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v3.10+
Signed-off-by: Nicholas Bellinger <nab@linux-iscsi.org>