[SCSI] block: add support for shared tag maps

The current block queue implementation already contains most of the
machinery for shared tag maps.  The only remaining pieces are a way to
allocate and destroy a tag map independently of the queues (so that
the maps can be managed on the life cycle of the overseeing entity)

Acked-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@SteelEye.com>