IB/rdmavt: Post receive for QP in ERR state

Accordingly IB Spec post WR to receive queue must
complete with error if QP is in Error state.
Please refer to C10-42, C10-97.2.1

Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Estrin <alex.estrin@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>